What NOT to do…

Have you ever found yourself witnessing a tragedy before your very eyes?  If so, did you struggle with how to respond?

About a year ago, I was walking towards the exit inside the Penn Hills Giant Eagle, after having done my banking.  Right in front of me, blocking my exit, was a teenage girl laying flat on her back.  Her eyes were open and rolled back, her mouth was open and foaming, and she was convulsing.  It didn’t look like she was breathing, but I hope she was.  There was already the store manager kneeling beside her, and he was calling 911.  Many shoppers gathered around in silence, watching the scene unfold before them.  As the minutes went by…and the ambulance had not yet arrived…people began to leave.   I struggled with what to do.  It just didn’t seem right to walk right past her and leave…but I couldn’t do anything for her and I didn’t feel right about standing there gawking.  So, not knowing what else to do, I knelt down on the linoleum and began to pray for her, with my hand extended towards her.  I have to admit that I felt pretty foolish…being the only one doing this.  Within a few more minutes, the paramedics arrived, put her on a stretcher and carried her out.  I got up and left.  I never heard any news about her, I hope she was okay.

I write about this experience because I believe it can be related to our mission to pray and witness in front of Planned Parenthood during this next 40 Days for Life (Sept. 27 – Nov. 5).

Allow me to explain.  You see, I have to admit that I get pretty discouraged after 14 consecutive vigils held in front of that place at 933 Liberty.  After so many years of fervent prayer, witnessing through all kinds of weather and putting up with persecutions…they are STILL ending the lives of approximately 3,000 human beings each year.  It doesn’t seem like our efforts are doing any good, does it?

When I feel weak in my faith, as I do right now…maybe even lukewarm in my love for God…and I don’t know what to do…I think of it in reverse and I ask myself, what should I NOT do?

I read the Gospel today from Matthew 13, where it says that Jesus was not able to do many mighty deeds in his hometown because of their lack of faith.  I found myself wondering, is that why he hasn’t ended abortion yet in our nation?  Do we lack faith?  Is that why God isn’t doing many miracles here?

So what do we do when we lack faith?

We should ACT like we have faith!  DO the deeds that we would do if we had faith!

Do we not want to fast?  FAST ANYWAY!!!  Not want to witness?  WITNESS ANYWAY!!!

So, every time I begin to think of giving up…I think about the alternative.  I think about those sidewalks in front of Planned Parenthood being EMPTY, while we went about our life as if we didn’t care.  I think about how that would look to the world.  It would LOOK as if we (Christians) didn’t care!  Just as I was afraid that if I had walked past that young girl in Giant Eagle, and had walked out those doors…it would have looked as if I didn’t care. So my strategy is…when I don’t know what it is that I should do, or how it is that I should respond…I like to think of it in reverse.  So, I ask myself…”What is it that I should NOT do?”  And then, I do the opposite.  Even if I make a fool of myself.

Would you consider being foolish with me?  Even if we cannot stop the killing of the innocents at 933 Liberty Avenue (God WILL do this in HIS TIME!!!)…we can be there to show that we care.  We can show that THIS MATTERS!  It matters to God, and it matters to us.

It is time to sign up to pray at the up-coming vigil…let’s get those 480 hours filled!  

Please email me at nbruni@40daysforlifepgh.com to commit for your time slot.  (Check the schedule first at  https://40daysforlifepittsburgh.com/vigil-schedule/    ).

Also, please help us in our efforts to close Planned Parenthood and to bring an end to abortion in Pittsburgh by signing up for our rosary campaign.  We would like every hour (from 7am – 11pm) during the 40 days to be covered with at least one person praying the rosary for this intention.  Go to  https://signup.com/client/invitation/6775657374/1930757/false#!1930757/false/false    to sign up.  (40 Days for Life is an ecumenical movement, and we are not trying to exclude non-Catholics who may not wish to pray the rosary…so if you are Protestant and would like to pledge to pray for certain hours, we welcome your prayers!  Please just contact Rick Thimons at rpthimons@comcast.net, who is in charge of the prayer campaign, and let him know.

And of course, we need your help to fill our fasting calendar during the 40 days!  We strive to have at least two people fasting every day during the 40 days.  Go to  https://signup.com/client/invitation/6775657374/1942419/false#!1942419/false/false        to sign up.

Also, don’t forget to “LIKE” our Facebook page and follow us!  You will be able to follow the national 40 Days for Life devotional prayers at https://www.facebook.com/40daysforlifepgh/

Finally, mark your calendar for Katie’s next Diaper Drive, to benefit local crisis pregnancy centers!  It will be held on Saturday, September 2nd from 7am – 7pm in front of Planned Parenthood.  More information will be posted soon.

Thank you for your help!

God bless you!

Your sister in Christ,


P.S.  I hope I am not confusing you with this blog post…Sue David IS the new campaign director!  As the vigil coordinator, I am just writing to try to help us to fill the vigil.  🙂

Passing the Torch

After successfully leading fourteen 40 Days for Life campaigns at Planned Parenthood in downtown Pittsburgh, Nikki Bruni has passed the torch! My name is Susan David, I am the new leader of 40 Days for Life in Pittsburgh. 


I assumed the role this summer from Nikki who has united the Pittsburgh Pro-Life community outside the doors of Planned Parenthood for 40 straight days every Spring and Fall! I want to thank Nikki for her amazing and humble leadership. She has built an incredible framework and has done so much to bring awareness to the Pro-Life message and to turn Hearts and Minds towards a Culture of Life! I am so happy to say that she will continue to work on 40 Days For Life and keep the well-oiled machine in motion!! 

Believe it or not, the Fall 2017 campaign is just around the corner….We will start with our Kickoff event featuring speaker Kurt Kondrich on Sunday Sept 24th at 5pm at Holy Wisdom Parish, St Boniface Church.

                                                        Kurt and Chloe Kondrich

         The campaign will run from September 27th through November 5th and our theme this time is TRUST. With all the talk about fake news recently, the cold hard truth is that 3,000 innocent lives are lost every year behind the doors of Planned Parenthood in downtown Pittsburgh. But we TRUST that God is at work through our peaceful, prayerful witness and that He will bring about an end to abortion in our city!  It is NOT too early to for your CHURCH to choose their time slot to provide the peaceful prayerful witness at our vigil, email Nikki today at nbruni@40daysforlifepgh.com 

Visit our websites at 40daysforlife.com/Pittsburgh  or 40daysforlifepittsburgh.com to sign up as an individual prayer witness and remember, there will always be a Shift Manager, so you will never be alone!
God Bless you, see you on the Sidewalk! Sue